This is a work in progress. Suggestions are welcome.
Links to live and laugh
http://www.afterabortion.com: a site dedicated to helping women deal with the pain after abortion. That's the focus--not your religion, nor your politics.
http://www.rachelsvineyard.org: provides worldwide retreats for men and women after abortion. A meditative Christian approach, available to people of any faith or denomination. Very respectful and powerful.
Honestly, you are best to go to one of the front pages of your local phone book. Having said that, there are new 12 step programs out there to learn about.
Sex Addiction: Not as "cool" or "fun" as it sounds. Here's why:
http://yourbrainonporn.com: The background on porn addiction.
http://billherring.info/atlanta_counseling/how-different-12-step-meetings-for-sexual-recovery-define-sexual-sobriety: Describes the differences between the 4 different 12-step programs available on sexual recovery. A must-read before choosing the right one for you.
http://posarc.com: For spouses of sex addicts. The first site to go to when you hit D-day ("Discovery day").
http://www.sexaddictionscounseling.com/blog/: EXCELLENT blog by Dr. Linda Hatch, for both addicts and their partners. Very informational, and, at times, hopeful. There is overlap on her blog featured on Psychcentral, but they are not all the same: http://blogs.psychcentral.com/sex-addiction/
http://outofthefog.net: Although it is for people with personality disorders as well as their friends and family, the toolbox on this site is an excellent resource for everybody's mental health--ideas for journalling, boundaries and self-care.
http://www.dailystrength.org: a network of forums for every mental or physical health issue out there.
"Adultery is grounds for forgiveness, not grounds for divorce" is a bumper sticker, not Scripture. Make it your choice based on your situation.
http://chumplady.com: Divorcing cheaters. Chumplady is not supportive of reconciliation. Really down-to-earth advice, even if your soon-to-be-ex is not a cheater, but is a narcissist or personality-disordered individual.
http://www.ship-of-fools.com: A Church of England website with sections that any person can relate to. Gadgets for God is one of my favourites.
http://soulmateshmoopies.wordpress.com: Gallows humour about cheaters.
http://www.paulaldrich.com/Video.html: Paul Aldrich is my kind of funny...link to visit his Youtube channel.
http://www.johnnybagpipes.com/video/videos.html: Who knew bagpipes could be funny?
Miscarriage and Infant Loss
http://www.earthmamaangelbaby.com/baby-loss-comfort: Has wonderful links for those who wish to support those who have had loss, as well as the mother. Gifts products also.
Porn-free "Marital Aids"
Because sex is fun! But porn is not...